The Happiness Tribe

(COMING SOON!)

A subscription coaching membership
for women with a history in the LDS community
who are ready to create confident, faith-filled lives!

The Happiness Tribe is currently seeking 20 women to become members of a three-month beta group at a discounted price. Interested? Fill out the contact form at the bottom of this page!

The Happiness Tribe

(COMING SOON!)

A subscription coaching membership
for women with a history in the LDS community
who are ready to create confident, faith-filled lives!

The Happiness Tribe is currently seeking 20 women to become members of a three-month beta group at a discounted price. Interested? Fill out the contact form at the bottom of this page!

Let’s be honest…

You’re here for a reason.

You have a good life, maybe even a great life!

But you aren’t happy.

Maybe you feel stuck and regularly ask yourself, “What am I doing wrong?”

Or perhaps you’re a survivor, trying to understand who you are without the affects of trauma or abuse.

It could be that you’re struggling with body image, hoping for a day when you can love yourself exactly the way you are right now.

Or maybe you’re overwhelmed with motherhood and all the roles you’re expected to play.

There are lots of things that could have led you here:

  • A rebellious child.
  • Navigating a faith transition.
  • The stress of always trying to make ends meet.
  • Your husband’s pornography addiction.
  • Feelings of inadequacy. 
  • Parenting an LGBTQ child.
  • The strain of fighting a long-term illness.
  • The world-wide pandemic.
  • Or just the weight of everyday life.

These problems weigh you down, make you feel inadequate, and whisper quietly, “You’re not enough.”

I get it. I’ve been where you are.

And I’m here to tell you, there’s hope.

Hi…I’m Sandra Jarvis.

 

I’m a Certified Life Coach, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, the daughter of a gay man, mom to a transgender daughter, wife of a recovering porn addict, cancer survivor, control freak, and a recovering perfectionist.

As a coach, I help women overcome the negative voices inside their head and get control of the thoughts that are causing misdirected shame and the expectation of perfection.

I get where you’re coming from because I’ve been there. And that voice that says you’re not enough, it talks to me on a regular basis, too!

That’s why I created The Happiness Tribe. I want to share the powerful secrets I’ve discovered that have allowed me to let go of perfectionism and shame, and start living a more confident, faith-filled life.

This is my family ten years ago.

To anyone looking in from the outside, we seemed nearly perfect.

But behind the smiles, we were struggling.

On top of the things already mentioned, I was dealing with severe depression and
a constant feeling of  “not enough-ness.”

It wasn’t for a lack of trying. In fact, I was doing everything right! But it never seemed to be enough!

Then, in 2014, I was in an accident that nearly severed my right hand and through my recovery,
I gained a new perspective on life.

As I let go of all the expectations that had been put on me  throughout my life and began living as a more authentic version of myself,  everything changed.

I found the inner-peace I’d been seeking for as long as I could remember. And I came to understand that there’s no such thing as perfectionism–because we’re all human, and that’s okay!

I’m still learning how to fight against shame and overcome feelings of inadequacy, but I’m no longer living with the constant feeling of “not enough-ness”.

It might seem impossible to get rid of that voice and start living with peace. But if I can do it, you can, too!  It’s all about letting go of judgment, understanding the power you have inside, and making conscious choices.

This is my family ten years ago.

To anyone looking in from the outside, we seemed nearly perfect.

But behind the smiles, we were struggling.

On top of the things already mentioned, I was dealing with severe depression and
a constant feeling of  “not enough-ness.”

It wasn’t for a lack of trying. In fact, I was doing everything right! But it never seemed to be enough!

Then, in 2014, I was in an accident that nearly severed my right hand and through my recovery,
I gained a new perspective on life.

As I let go of all the expectations that had been put on me  throughout my life and began living as a more authentic version of myself,  everything changed.

I found the inner-peace I’d been seeking for as long as I could remember. And I came to understand that there’s no such thing as perfectionism–because we’re all human, and that’s okay!

I’m still learning how to fight against shame and overcome feelings of inadequacy, but I’m no longer living with the constant feeling of “not enough-ness”.

It might seem impossible to get rid of that voice and start living with peace. But if I can do it, you can, too!  It’s all about letting go of judgment, understanding the power you have inside, and making conscious choices.

Those are all things I teach inside 

The Happiness Tribe

It’s purpose is to empower you with confidence, self-love, and internal peace.

In The Happiness Tribe, we explore Six Strategies for Happiness that will help you live more confidently and with greater faith. The Strategies are:

Conscious Awareness

Self-love and Acceptance

Surrendering Control

Mind Management

Increasing Faith

Purposeful Contribution

These Six Strategies for Happiness

…will give you a better understanding of how your brain is wired

so you can make conscious decisions about your thoughts and emotions,

then create the confidence you’ve been wanting all along.

 

It may sound simple, but this is powerful stuff!

 

How it works…

As a member of The Tribe, you’ll have access to virtual classes and workshops including:

  • Live Coaching Calls each week
  • A monthly class focused on one of the Six Empowerment Strategies
  • Homework assignments and self-coaching tools
  • A monthly workshop with an activity or exercise to help you implement the monthly strategy
  • Video replays of all calls, classes and workshops for as long as you remain a member of the tribe
  • Study guides with inspirational scriptures and quotes for those interested in seeing how their faith fits into the big picture
  • 24/7 support through the SINCERELY SANDRA FORUM
  • Plus, you’ll have priority access to individual coaching, retreats, and other events for an additional charge.

Membership is limited so sign up today!

This is my family today…

We don’t look quite as perfect as we once did…

But we’re happier than we’ve ever been!

We’ve learned a few things about living authentically and unapologetically…
and those are the things I’m sharing with my clients inside

The Happiness Tribe. 

I hope you’ll join us!

What my clients are saying…

Sandra gave me the tools I needed to start changing my mindset, energy, focus, and perceptions as a starting point to change my life. It was powerful to learn about my energy and how much control I have over creating it. Her kindness and patience as we worked through my issues made all the difference. As a result, I was seeing positive changes in my life, as well as the lives of those around me within weeks. I am thankful for her help and her excellent example. 

Jessica

Coaching with Sandra has changed how I think and feel, and has given me hope for a better life. Sandra is an incredible listener and has an amazing skill for helping me find different perspectives for the situations I face on a daily basis. I now know that I can control my thoughts and how I react to life. I can be happy regardless of who I’m dealing with or what life throws at me. Thank you, Sandra, for your patience in teaching me and helping me understand each principle.

Clara

I had done the work around my trauma, but I was still stuck. Fear, depression, and overwhelm were my companions for so long, I forgot what being happy felt like. I was in survival mode, going through the motions because that’s what I’d always done. Working with Sandra changed that for me. She “gets it” because she’s been there and done the work herself. I am becoming a new person as I implement tools to help me thrive–the person I was always meant to be.

Sami

Sandra is an incredibly kind and insightful coach; our sessions together have become the highlight of my week. Through her guidance, I’m learning to live consciously, which has made me feel more energy, gratitude, and love than I have felt in years. For the first time in a long time, I love the life I’m living and look forward to waking up each day. I highly recommend coaching with Sandra for anyone struggling to feel better about life.

Desiree

Working with Sandra has been an eye-opening, humbling experience. She has helped me to recognize the strengths I have to offer the world while working on improving my weak areas. I have grown both emotionally and spiritually in a very short time with her guidance.  I’ve set and reached goals that I never thought would be possible. She is easy to open up to and her kindness is evident in her approach. I would highly recommend her to anyone wanting to create and embrace lasting change!

Lara

Thanks to my work with Sandra, I have a new perspective on my circumstances. I now feel like I am in control of my own destiny and I know that I get to choose how I think and feel. I love using the Planner of Happiness as a tool to implement the things she has taught me. It’s helping me to create the results I’ve always wanted in my life. I feel peace, joy and contentment that I never felt before I started coaching. I highly recommend Sandra’s  program.

Kayla

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does my membership last?

The Happiness Tribe is an ongoing program, meaning that once you start, you get to choose how long to stay. To get the greatest benefit from your membership, it is recommended that you stay for at least a year, however, memberships are billed monthly and you may cancel at any time. No refunds will be given for partial months.

What if I can't make the live calls?

All calls, classes, and workshops are recorded and available through the website within 48 hours. 

No refunds are given for missed calls.

Will everyone see me on the calls?

No, only those who volunteer in advance for coaching will be visible on the calls. 

Please note, when you volunteer to be coached live, please test your camera and microphone before the call begins so we can jump right in!

Will this program benefit me if I don't want to be coached in front of other people?

Yes. The program is designed to give you tools you can use on your own to help you begin improving your life immediately. Coaching is available each week during the scheduled calls, but it is also powerful to watch others being coached and learn along with them. In fact, sometimes, it’s even more beneficial to be a listener than it is to be coached! Either way, no one is ever forced into being coached.

How do the membership fees work?

Members are set up with an automatic, recurring monthly payment. The fee will be charged to your account on the same day each month until you choose to end your membership. Fees are calculated on a monthly basis. Your membership will be revoked immediately upon cancellation. No refunds will be given for partial months.

I have a sensitive issue and would rather be coached privately. Is this an option?

Absolutely. I offer one-on-one coaching to Tribe members for an additional fee. A link to my calendar can be found on The Happiness Tribe Home Page.

If I didn't join at the beginning, won't I be behind?

Not at all! Within the program, we focus on a different Empowerment Strategy each month. Some women may have more experience in the current strategy, but they serve as valuable resources for newer or less-experienced members. Because our membership is ongoing, there are always women at different places in their journey and that’s a good thing! It creates an atmosphere of support and encouragement for everyone involved.

How do I know if The Happiness Tribe is right for me?

 

If you’re looking for an easy fix to your problems, The  Happiness Tribe is NOT for you.

If you’re looking for someone to feel sorry for you and say your life is hard, The  Happiness Tribe is NOT for you.

If you’re looking for a place to be negative and complain about the challenges you’re experiencing, The Happiness Tribe is NOT for you!

BUT…

If you’re ready to let go of shame and start loving yourself, you’re in the right place.

If you’re eager to improve and want to understand what’s been holding you back, this is the place for you.

If you’re looking for tools that will empower you to become the best version of yourself, then you’ll fit right in.

If you’re ready to surrender the idea that someone else can make you happy and confident,  we’re thrilled to have you join us!

If you’re sick of perfectionism and willing to look inside yourself for answers, then what are you waiting for?

This program has the power to change your life…

If you’re ready to move forward in empowering ways…

If you’re ready to connect with a community of like-minded women…

If you’re ready to create a faith-filled life…

If you’re ready to discover what it’s like to live with confidence…

     

    Join 

    The Happiness Tribe

    today!

    The Happiness Tribe will officially launch in Fall of 2020. However, beginning July 1, 2020, a beta group of 20 women will begin a three- month trial period to give feedback and ensure that it’s the best program it can be.

    If you’re interested in participating in the beta group at the discounted price of just $20 per month (regular price of $40 per month begins in Fall 2020), submit the contact form below. You’ll receive additional information about becoming a beta participant so you can determine if this opportunity is right for you.

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